Why Is Masturbation Wrong?
Hi,
I was reading this book by a pastor, and he was talking
about young adults and relationships, sexual immorality etc. When it came to masturbation,
he said it was wrong but he couldn't really say why. I started doing some
research on masturbation on the net but I kept coming up with the same
thing...it's wrong, but no specific reason why, or most Christian websites just
don't mention it at all. I guess it's hard to give a reason because the bible
doesn't say anything about it directly. I guess I want a deeper explanation of
why it's wrong. Is it sex? Is it a selfish act? An impure act? Does it grieve
the Holy Spirit? Is it okay when you're single but wrong when you're married or
right in marriage, wrong when you're single? Answers please...
Greetings
Brethren,
Peace
be unto you. We thank God for another day and for the inspiration to search out
his sacred Word. We also come lifting up our Savior Christ Jesus in praise and
giving due honor and reverence to the Holy Spirit.
The
Bible holds the keys to our salvation and the Truth and knowledge that we need
along the path to Peace and Paradise.
Peace and Love, Carl A. Patton a willing slave of Almighty God writing for the FreedomJournal December 19, 2006 in the year of our Lord and Savior Christ Jesus.
In the name of God,
Master of the universe, Ruler of the earth
Brethren it is always
important to search the scriptures for answers to questions that confront the
believers along our journey. However as you have noted this question takes some
time and energy as the word itself is not noted in scripture and there is the
great challenge. For example in our experiences with similar questions and
concerns like should Christians dispose of the body by Cremation we have seen
similar challenges. The word Cremation is not found in scripture. Therefore we then look for related terms,
words etc. that can be applied to our
major question and concern. Thus we find that the Bible renders much about
graves, burials, fire, ashes, and body, soul and Spirit. The Spirit is of
special interest in that the Cremators argue that God is only concerned about
the Spirit therefore one can do anything with the body. We need not go into a
lengthy discussion as you can find the on-going series on Cremation on this
Board. However we note in scripture that the Spirit is not a Right and Good
Spirit when one decides to Cremate and Burn the body as a way to dispose it at
death. Therefore we look for what the Bible renders and not man.
For another example
that is more related to our present discussion we note the series on “Pastors
Appreciation/Anniversaries.” Once again the word or phrase “Pastors
Appreciation or Pastors Anniversaries” is not noted in scripture. However with this subject there is not an
abundance of related terms that we found in researching the question on
Cremation. However what is most important in this discussion is the use of the
term Celebration and who we should be Praising. There is where we found the
answers to our question.
In the case of
masturbation we must look at what the Bible says about fornication, adultery,
and then pursue what the Bible renders concerning sex, sexuality, and sexual
sin. However as a preface to all of this we must first define masturbation.
Then pursue the scripture references that relate to our central question.
Within this framework we can then find the answers to the questions regarding
is masturbation wrong. What are the stipulations on marriage and masturbation?
Is masturbation related to fornication outside of marriage? Is masturbation
noted differently within the marriage confines?
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Part 3: Lust
& Sex How They Relate to Masturbation
Part 4: Is
Sex The Same Yesterday As It is Today?
Part 5: Can
A Christian Marriage Involve Masturbation?
Part 6:
Should You Marry To Avoid Fornication?
Part 7: God
Ordained Marriage To Allow Reproduction & Lawful
Sexual Gratification
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Part 8: Paul
Is Inspired By God to Teach About Marriage
Part 9:
Allow Marriage to Control Desires of The Flesh
Part 10:
Was Onan Punished For Masturbation or Birth Control?
Part 11:
The Lawful Means of Sexual Desire
Part 12: A
Concluding Word on Masturbation
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